Chasing Financial Freedom and Early Retirement (FIRE) as a Late-Blooming Single Parent

Chasing Financial Freedom and Early Retirement (FIRE) as a Late-Blooming Single Parent


### The Path to Financial Freedom: A Tale of Determination, Development, and Economic Liberation

Financial independence (FI) is a goal that many aspire to but only a select few actually attain. Barriers such as debt, personal circumstances, and insufficient resources frequently obstruct the way. Nevertheless, Monica Scudieri, contributing author of the book **Grab Your Slice of Financial Independence**, illustrates that even when confronted with substantial hurdles—from a challenging divorce to job loss and significant debt—financial independence is not only realizable but can be achieved in surprisingly brief periods, given the correct attitude and tactics.

Monica achieved FI in merely ten years, retiring at the age of 52 with a net worth exceeding $1 million. Currently, with a net worth over $2.3 million, she reflects on her journey and the insights that propelled her through the tumultuous experience she described as “less graceful swan and more drunken flamingo.”

Here’s her inspiring narrative, which she hopes will motivate other ambitious individuals to persevere when their financial dreams appear unattainable.

#### The Surprising Start: Growing Up with Immigrant Roots

Monica’s financial adventure is deeply intertwined with her upbringing. Raised by Italian immigrant parents who relocated to the U.S. from a small town in the Abruzzo region of Italy, Monica adopted the frugal lifestyle ingrained in immigrant culture. Although her parents lacked formal education, they successfully established a tailoring business in Miami Beach, Florida, all while steering clear of debt and saving whenever feasible.

However, in spite of their financial prudence, they placed little emphasis on investing. Monica recalls a tale where her parents ventured into a single stock at a friend’s suggestion, only to see it vanish the very next day. Following that incident, her parents abandoned the stock market—a trepidation they passed on to their children.

Monica broke conventions by becoming the first woman in her family to attend college. Her father covered her tuition, enabling her to graduate debt-free—an advantage that would prove invaluable, especially when life later presented her with significant financial challenges.

#### The American Dream, Followed by a Downturn

Monica’s early adult life resembled the classic American Dream: a corporate job, a house, two kids, two cats, and a mortgage in sunny California. The only hiccup? Debt began to accumulate. Her then-husband was not an advocate of paying off credit cards, and that disparity in financial philosophies led to strain in their relationship. By 2008, after relocating to North Carolina, the marriage ended, leaving Monica as a single mother of two, burdened with $257,000 in debt—a seemingly overwhelming amount at that time.

Monica found herself unemployed during the peak of the Great Recession. Job opportunities were scarce, her home was underwater due to the collapsing housing market, and her financial outlook appeared grim. It was during this challenging period that she truly embarked on her quest for financial independence.

#### The Ambitious Aim: Achieving $1 Million Net Worth

Initially, the concept of achieving a $1 million net worth felt remote and intangible to Monica. Nevertheless, she clung to this bold aspiration tenaciously, even when her starting point resembled rock bottom. Reflecting back, she realized that her genuine goal wasn’t merely a numeric figure—it was the aspiration to never be vulnerable or reliant on paychecks again. She sought to protect her children’s future and attain freedom, not just financial security.

In establishing her goal, Monica discovered several crucial lessons early on, including the significance of identifying a personal “why.” That “why” became her guiding beacon during the darkest and most trying times of her journey. “I never wanted to be in a vulnerable position again,” she writes.

#### Single Parenting and Financial Epiphany

The financial challenges were emotionally draining as well. Monica remembered a particularly touching moment when her young son inquired if they were “poor.” It was then she understood that while she carried debt and had few immediate prospects, poverty transcends mere numbers—it encapsulates mindset. She reassured him that they were wealthy in family, love, and resilience, stressing that “money provides security, not happiness.”

This mindset emerged as a fundamental cornerstone of Monica’s path to financial independence. While concentrating on her daily cash flow, she remained committed to long-term objectives and found stability through perseverance, financial literacy, and innovative problem-solving.

#### The Turning Point: Real Estate and a Breakthrough

By 2012, Monica made her first significant move on her financial journey. Despite enduring unemployment multiple times over 22 months, she sold her house, eliminated her debt, and made a 50% down payment on a new property. Equipped with a HELOC (Home Equity Line of Credit), she then ventured into something she had diligently researched: investing in rental properties.

Indeed, Monica accomplished what many real estate investors strive for: between 2013 and 2015, she acquired five single-family rental homes.